I had to laugh when they told me (after 4 neurologists in 10 years) that my severe Never-Ending VERTIGO is caused by “Crystals” in the most inner part of the ear- (behind inner ear stones can form)
Life is but a journey, a long trip through rugged terrain and deep dark forests, across raging rivers and high mountains. But, at the end of every trip you know that you will find shelter and hope for your next adventure to be a more “gentle” one.
When Crying IS needed….
How many of us find ourselves crying more than Usual?
- Heck- I cry ALMOST everyday!
I cry softly when it’s a ‘passing memory”- (mostly out of fond loving memories) – and I cry HARD when it is a Painful (heartwise) situation. I know it sounds sad, but is is more sad not to be able to embrace the “emotion”… or What “we fear/loose/miss”(etc) -
Posted by rIa on Monday, 23 February, 2009 @ 3:05 pm
WHO WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE?
Mind you it’s easy to talk about money as being evil but what effect would it have on us if we suddenly had the big Lotto win? As Mark Twain once said: “I am opposed to millionaires but it would be dangerous to offer me the position.” Read the rest of this entry »
Posted by rIa on Saturday, 17 January, 2009 @ 11:21 pm
The most important thing I’ve had to learn is to allow myself to grieve.
You must take the time to pour through the memories, to recognize your emotions. If you try to push through as our society demands, you’re going to be somewhere you do not want to be when the feelings and tears come pouring out.
Posted by rIa on Saturday, 10 January, 2009 @ 11:10 am
My son last eve came home in a frantic panic rush… his father (my ex) had a stroke- (living approx 3 hours away) upstate NY- Of course he was all speed up to shoot right up there- a “snowy area of NYS” I had to intervene.
As much “damage” this man has done to me especially his son (deadbeat dad badTIME) I could not feel anything but the pain my son was going through at the moment-
Posted by rIa on Thursday, 31 July, 2008 @ 6:02 pm
Art Of Projecting
Closely linked to hurling accusations is the fine art of projecting.This is both an awful thing to live with and a useful tool for you.I don’t mean that you should start projecting. I mean that theirprojecting can be used to your advantage.
Now it’s time to say goodbye…ending friendships
For many women, friendships are among the most important things in their lives. Some assume that the longer the duration of the friendship, the better the friend. But that’s not necessarily true.